I have been conditioned to mistrust and dislike strong, confident, happy girls and women. We all have. Studies prove that the more powerful, successful, and happy a man becomes, the more people trust and like him. But the more powerful and happy a woman becomes, the less people like and trust her. So we proclaim: Women are entitled to take their rightful place! Then, when a woman does take her rightful place, our first reaction is: She's so...entitled. We become people who say of confident women, "I don't know, I can't explain it --- it's just something about her. I just don't like her. I can't put my finger on why." I can put my finger on why: It's because our training is kicking in through our subconscious.
-- Glennon Doyle, Untamed, p. 285
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