That night I told Abby, "I'm not going to spend one more second explaining myself or justifying our relationship. Explaining is fear preparing its case, and we are not on trial. No one can take what we have. I can't convince my parents that we're okay by talking incessantly about how okay we are. I think the only way to convince anybody you are okay is just to go about being okay and let them witness it. I don't want to leave our island to be an evangelist for us anymore. It's too tiring, and every time I go and try to convince other people that we're fine, I'm not here, with you -- being fine..."
-- Glennon Doyle, Untamed, p. 192
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