One day I was listening to an interview with the musician Fiona Apple, and she admitted that she reads a lot of parenting books, not because she plans on having kids but because she wants to learn how to parent herself. "So, you're the parent and the child?" the interviewer asked. "Well, I mean, you always have to be," Apple said. "Everybody has to be for themselves, I think."
-- Austin Kleon, Don't Call It Art, p. 4