Marc Wolf:

So yes, be brave as you fight for justice and against those who perpetuate cruelty.  But please remember to be brave in your generosity, be brave in helping those close to you.  Be emotionally brave to share your feelings, your thoughts.  Be brave in sharing your encouragement, sharing your time.  These are "soft" braveries, but they will be important for both of us.  This kind of bravery exposes us because we reveal what moves us, we reveal who we really care about.

The Letter Q, p. 204-205